Dating is so hard theses days so here at LSDJ we making it easy. Send LSDJ a photo and a brief description of yourself also what you are looking for in a mate. We will set you up on a blind date to come out to the location we are playing at and you & your date take it from their. Tell your friends to join it is random. You could even get one of the DJ's as your date. You will be notified by email or phone if given. 

This one is for very very privet sends that you don't want to be found any were on this website or on the web. Cut and past this Email address. This is the address you need to send info to. Only click on this address if you have outlook configured. Don't for get the photo. Use the help below to help LSDJ find the right guy or girl for you.    date@lightingstrikesdj.com  The stuff below is what would help LSDJ find the one for yourself.  Just a suggestion to of a description you don't have to put it all but some of it will help.

2. Condoms for both men and women. We are living in a modern age, so modern thinking is required, whatever your morality and outlook. Stay sensible.

3. Mobile or cellular phone. For women this is an essential security device as well as an aid to keeping in contact with your date should arrangements go awry or the cab is late.

4. A piece of paper with directions and address of the restaurant or location you are meeting together with your date's cellular number if they have one. That way you won't find yourself in the embarrassing situation of not knowing where you are going.

5. A sense of humor. Okay it's not a thing but it is the one factor that ruins dates more than anything else, the inability to laugh and enjoy. Going on a date in a bad mood is not going to make anyone feel special.

6. A flower. A nice touch for a guy to show he has thought about his date by bringing a single flower that he has actually gone and purchased rather than stealing from a local garden.

7. If conditions require it, take an umbrella. There is nothing worse than spending hours getting ready, only for a rogue shower to ruin everything. This is particularly true towards the end of the evening, so be prepared and do not allow yourself to feel cold or wet. Discomfort can ruin everything.

8. Take some trust and common sense in equal amounts. You have to trust people from the outset otherwise you are fooling yourself. Remember that people are innocent until proven guilty so don't take along an attitude that your new date is as bad as your ex until proven otherwise, otherwise love will elude you. By the same token common sense will ensure you can spot danger signals and warning signs in your date and whether you are or are not indeed compatible.

9. Carry a small pocket diary and pen, especially the guy. This will make you look organized and professional and allows you to arrange a second date together as well as make a note of his or her number. Try not to have lots of other girls/boys names on the pages you are liable to be writing in.

10. And finally, make sure you haven't left your personality at home either. Whilst first dates can be quite daunting for many, there is no excuse for forgetting yourself. So many people feel overawed by the moment that they suppress who they are, forget themselves and find themselves tongue tied. It is as much your date as theirs so remember that this is quality time for you to have fun and relax, yes relax. Enjoy the conversation that flows.

2. Once you are both there, relax and get a drink for both parties and settle in to some great conversation.

3. Be prepared to do a lot of listening. Everything you need to know is being told to you both verbally and non-verbally so by listening and watching for body signals you will know how things are going.

4. Stop thinking of the evening as one of huge importance. You are both there to get to know each other as well as having fun so be prepared to have some funny stories at the ready.

5. Do not love the sound of your own voice too much. Interrupting and dominating the conversation isn't always the right way to go. Let them tell their stories as much as you.

6. Do not discuss ex partners, previous relationships in detail or your views on sex. Particularly for guys, the subject of sex needs to be avoided, however much she tempts you. Less is more.

7. Remain mysteries to a limited degree and do hold some information back whilst building up the mystery and levels of desire.

8. Look at your date and hold eye contact at all times. Giving singular attention is extremely desirable and exciting. The fact that there is someone on the next table whom you desire even more is not something you must recognize.

9. Always keep your date wanting more, so a first date shouldn't be a drawn out affair. A second date can always build on the success of the first.

10. Never ever argue with the DJ, member of staff or appear aggressive or rude to others. This will not impress anyone or impress your date. Arrogance is to be despised.